I agree. I'm seeing a surprising number of people we would call pretty uke boys who are clearly presenting themselves for viewing, clearly courting attention by being decorative, and waiting to be approached. You would expect if they're that hungry for attention they'd be aggressive or noisy, and some few are (in something close to a Priscilla Queen of the Desert manner) but a surprising percentage are hiding behind locks of hair in a very stereotypic manner. It's clear that many of them would probably welcome a controlling top in very classic BDSM manner, or already have one and are not exactly monogamous about it. I'm thinking some of these guys might as well be flashing big neon signs, for me to notice it when I'm half-asleep ont eh way to work! I don't see as often the counterpart you would expect, the aggressive macha top with chains on her pants, but usually they're busy, impatient, and moving fast.
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Date: 2008-08-18 02:57 pm (UTC)I don't see as often the counterpart you would expect, the aggressive macha top with chains on her pants, but usually they're busy, impatient, and moving fast.